Benchers to One Person is a Different Benchers to Another - It Depends on Culture

Make a Google search for Benchers and you willGrace for after meals. The word Bencher
be surprised that people actually sell them. Whyoriginates from the Yiddish language. Literally
be surprised?! Take a Webster Dictionary and looktranslated the word bencher means "Blesser".
up for the definition for the word Bencher, this isUpon checking up at other Jewish shops as well
what you will get: "one who sits on or presides atwe were informed that in fact this is the definition
a bench". So how in the world can people sellfor the word benchers in the Jewish lexicon. This
benchers online?? Nobody can actually sell peopleis a very interesting point that teaches us a
sitting on benches!interesting lesson; depending on the culture of the
This is where it needs to be explained that thereperson the exact same word can be a insult for
are two types of benchers and it depends whomone and a compliment for another. If you call a
you ask. Upon searching for the meaning ofJewish person a "Bencher" it literally means that
benchers on Google, we were able to see thathe is a "blesser", but if calling a Non-Jew a
the first result was a Jewish Gift Shop and they"Bencher" he/she will take it as an insult for being
had a good explanation on their benchers page ascalled a lazy person sitting around and doing
to what this bencher business is all about.nothing.
According to that Gift shop, "Bencher is the mostA nice thought to ponder on....
common word used for the Jewish book of