Funeral and Memorial Services

Funeral and memorial services play a vital role incouple hours, then a break for dinner, etc, and
the grieving process following the loss of a lovedthen held for a couple more hours.
one. These services provide a way to come toFuneral/Memorial Service
terms with our loss. It is also an opportunity toAs mentioned earlier, there are many various
receive support from, as well as to providetypes of funeral and memorial services. This is
support to friends and family.where the deceased's background, religion, culture,
Some may not have had this experience yet, orand personal traits come into play most
are now experiencing it for the first time. If this ispredominantly. Typically, most cultures and
the case, one may not know what to expect atreligions in the United States will hold the funeral
these types of services, or what will take place.services in the funeral home, or at a church,
There are many, many diverse cultures,synagogue, etc. Sometimes, the funeral services
traditions, and religions; and there are just aswill be held firstly at the funeral home, and then
many types of funeral and memorial services.moved to the church. After the memorial, the
Every memorial service is as unique as theattendees will drive in procession to the cemetery
individual it is meant to remember.or burial site, although this is not always
Visitationperformed.
The visitation is most commonly held at theBurial Service
funeral home, or, less commonly, at aSometimes the graveside service, or interment, is
family-member's residence. Sometimes called aall that is performed, with the memorial service
"viewing" or a "wake", the visitation is meant toincluded. Other times, the bereaved will arrive at
give the friends and family of the deceased anthe burial site after the funeral service. In either
opportunity to meet and gather to support onecase, this is where the final service is performed,
another. The visitation is most normally held eitherand there is a final service, prayer, and/or military
the day before the funeral, or a few days beforehonor, etc. Afterward, the deceased is interred,
and is held for a few hours. It is not uncommonor the ashes are scattered, or are given to the
to have multiple visitations during the week of thefamily.
funeral. Sometimes, a visitation will be held for a