Planning a Military Wedding

Any man or woman who is an active member ofthe sharp edge facing up. The couple enters the
the military may have a military wedding.arch, stops to kiss, then pass through. The
A military ceremony is conducted according tonewlywed(s) in uniform salutes the honor guard.
the religion and traditions of the couple but with aThe officers then return the swords/sabers to
few twists. A military wedding is different from athe carry position.
civilian wedding in the following ways.RECEPTION
ATTIREAt a seated reception, military guests are shown
Formal attire must be worn. Any man in theto their places in order of rank.
military must wear his full-dress uniform includingThe bride and groom cut the wedding cake with a
white gloves and sword/saber. Men in uniform dosword/saber.
not wear boutonnieres.DECORATING IDEAS
If the bride is a military member, she may wearThe reception hall can be decorated in military
her uniform if she so chooses.style. You can use the standards of the couples
Since this is a formal wedding the bride shouldmilitary unit(s) for the color scheme.
wear an appropriate gown - no low-cut necklinesFeature regimental decorations. Display the
or backs, and nothing strapless. A long elegantAmerican flag and place mini flags on tables.
gown with a flowing train would be ideal.Green wreaths with white flowers would make
All non-military attendants must wear formallovely centerpieces.
attire.Special touch: Play the theme song of the
If a bride wears her uniform, she cannot weargroom’s and/or bride’s branch of service.
flowers or a corsage.MISCELLANEOUS INFORMATION
An American flag should be displayed along withA military wedding can be held in the couple’s
the standards (colors) of the couple’s militaryown church, synagogue, or the chapel at a military
unit(s) during the ceremony.base. You can also marry at a military academy if
RECESSIONALyou are a graduate (active, or retired); a child of
The bride and groom pass under an arch ofa graduate or a member of the staff.
drawn swords or sabers. The arch is formed byOnly someone who is wearing a full-dress uniform
an honor guard (made up of commissionedcan carry a sword or saber.
officers), and symbolizes a safe passage intoNaval officers carry swords, while Army, Air
marriage.force, and Marine Officers carry sabers.
On command swords or sabers are raised with