Sometimes Lighting Chanukah Candles Leaves Us in the Dark

Much like the other winter holidays, Chanukah is ato find some aspect of the holiday that has
festival of lights. When this holiday becomes onepersonal meaning for you. Also, know exactly
more about commercialism and less abouthow to light the candles and say the prescribed
spirituality, however, even the lighting of candlesblessings. Then, when you light the candles and
for 8 nights can leave people in the dark spiritually.say the blessings, keep this meaning in mind.
Learn how to transform the celebration of thisTo make the experience spiritual, create a sacred
holiday from an empty observance into aspace within which to set your chanukiah, the
meaning-full and spirit-full one.special menorah used on this holiday. This can be
Despite the fact that the observance ofas simple as placing a special table cloth on the
Chanukah revolves around the lighting of candlestable, burning incense in the room, or saying a
in the menorah, often Jews find themselves in theprayer invoking the Divine Presence to join you
dark when it comes to making this holidayfor this ritual.
meaningful and spiritual. Much like Christmas,Also, spend some time with your family in the
Chanukah has become a holiday aboutlight of the candles. The light is said to have a
consumerism rather than about God, miracles andspiritual quality all its own, so basking in it can be
struggles for religious freedom.quite a spiritual experience all its own. Many people
Just as the Maccabi's fought back against thelike to meditate on the flames, which seem to be
Syrians desire to assimilate them into their wayreaching up to God.
of life and their religious practices, Jews todayAlso, Chanukah, a time when we commemorate
must continue struggling to retain their religiousthe miracle of a small jug of oil burning not for
and spiritual beliefs and practices. At no time isjust one day but for eight and a small army
this more apparent than during the holiday season,defeating a large one, supposedly is a time when
when everywhere Jews turn they are bombardedwe can access the energy of miracles. If we sit in
by the consumerism of Christmas, which seemsthe light of the candles and meditate on the
to far outweigh its spiritual or religious meaningmiracles we would like to create in our lives, as
and context. Yet, it is possible to instill the lightingwell as in the world, we have a higher likelihood of
of the Chanukah candles with meaning and toactually manifesting them.
make this a spiritual ritual for the whole family.So don't spend another Chanukah lighting candles
In fact, Chanukah was never about giving gifts.every night in an empty and meaningless manner.
Traditionally, teachers received "gelt," or money,Take the time to put some thought and
at this time of year to show appreciation for theirpreparation into the ritual. Instead of getting
contribution to children's education. Occassionallycaught up in the buying frenzy of other winter
students also received gelt. This explains whyholidays, spend time contemplating how to make
many Jews give gold-foil covered chocolateyour holiday meaningful and spiritual. By utilizing
"coins" on this holiday.some of these techniques, tools and activities, this
To make your Chanukah ritual meaningful, prior toChanukah, you can transform your holiday
the first night of Chanukah research why thisobservance into a meaning-full and spirit-full one.
holiday is observed and what it really is about. Try