Why Does God Comfort Those Who Mourn?

"Blessed are those who mourn, for they shall benot understand why God allows tragedy to strike
comforted" (Matthew 5:4).us, but we can rest in his infinite wisdom and
"If you cry, it will get better" is the meaning oftender mercies. One look at Jesus' suffering on
this second Beatitude, says Brittany, age 6.the cross, and we know he understands our pain.
Brittany, if you cry for the right reasons, you will"This means that those who feel sorry and awful
indeed get better because God will comfort you.for what they did wrong will be comforted by
"This verse means to pray for those who areGod," says Avery, 11. Jesus began his ministry by
sad," says Todd, 9. "Try to help them take theirreading from the Isaiah scroll in the synagogue. He
mind off it. Invite them over to spend the nightdeclared that the Lord had anointed him to preach
or to a water park." I don't know if God comfortsthe gospel to the poor and to heal the
by sending the mournful to water parks, but nowbrokenhearted (Luke 4:18).
that you mention it, I've never seen anyoneKing David wrote that a "broken spirit" and a
mourning while slipping and sliding around curves,"contrite heart" are offerings that most please
screaming at the top of his or her lungs.God (Psalm 51:17). When faced with the
"I mourned when my puppy ran away," saysconsequences of our own sin and the suffering of
Taylor, 11. "I cried for hours, wanting him back,living in a fallen world, we can harden our hearts
but he never came back. We got a new dog, butand become cynical or open them by crying out
I still cry sometimes." All of us experience losses,to God for help and comfort.
but our hearts don't want to accept them. We're"It means blessed are those who are lonely, they
left feeling hurt and powerless.will be comforted by God," says Marshall, 9. The
"'Blessed are those who mourn' means that Godpain of our loneliness can be so intense that even
blesses those who have a tender heart," saysour closest friends and relatives can't understand,
Sean, 10. No pun intended, but now, we're gettingbut God does. He knows we need fellowship with
to the heart of the matter.him and others. The isolation created by self-pity
Of all the paradoxes in the Beatitudes, this is theis never the answer.
most dramatic. "It's an astonishing thing to speakAuthor Gene Davenport writes: "Genuine comfort
of the joy of sorrow, of the gladness of grief,... the strength to endure the ravages of the
and of the bliss of the brokenhearted," writesDarkness without bitterness or despair ... is solely
Bible scholar William Barclay. Jesus was called aa gift. It is the expression of God's own presence,
"man of sorrows" because he understood thethe assertion of God's own sovereignty over the
destructive nature of sin and evil. Yet it was theDarkness."
joy that was set before him that gave him thePoint to ponder: God will heal the brokenhearted
strength to endure the cross. Jesus knew that hiswhen they look to him.
suffering would both purchase our salvation andScripture to remember: "Blessed are those who
please his Father. This gave him great joy andmourn, for they shall be comforted" (Matthew
purpose.5:4).
We, too, can have joy in the midst of sorrow ifQuestion to consider: In the midst of your
we believe that God's grace and sovereignty aresorrow, do you believe God is good?
greater than any loss or disappointment. We may